When I and my brother were younger, we had a brief affair but things stopped before it actually began. My brother went to the army. We both got married and had an happy life. 5 years ago my brother's wife died and he began pushing me into an affair with him again, but I told him no, not because I didn't want it but because I didn't want to cheat on my husband. When my husband died 2 years ago there wasn't any reason to against my feelings and we started again what we left off 37 years ago.