I still can't get my wife to have anal sex. We tried it once and she said never again. During the first years I've tried but without any luck then I've quit not because I didn't wanted it anymore but because I've found out my step-daughter loves it. It all started when my wife commented with her daughter I was very pushy about having anal sex. Now I have sex with her mother just as she likes it and with her daughter just like I like it.