My mother is the oldest of 4, her youngest brother is only 9 years older than me. When my uncle had an accident with his car he stayed with us so my mother could take care of him and we began our relationship, he stayed for 6 months and we started to talk and know each other, it was fantastic but at the same time scary. When he went back to his house we keep in touch and I began to spend the weekends with him, our family thought I was at a friend's house