I never knew my father it was my uncle (my mother's youngest brother) that in some kind of way took my father's place in my head. The thing here is that he's only 8 years older then me. When I had problems at school with people bulyiing me because I was fat, my uncle always came to my defense, and most important he listen to me. When I was 19 we started having sex and no one knew about it. It last for about 3 years then my uncle started dating a girl and end up marriying her. We didn't had sex since and I tried several times.