When my mother decided to get married I told her not to, she could live with him without getting married, but she didn't listen. Two years later the guy had a car accident and now he's in bed for life and my mother, as his wife has her life completely dependent of his needs. Sometimes I go visit her and stay at a small room in the basement where we like to have fun together, like in the old days when it was only the two of us. Now she tells me it was a mistake to get married, I told her!