My son is 20 and it's completely lost about what he wants to do with his life. I asked my husband (his step-father) to get him something to do at his firm, but after a week or so he's already bored and doesn't even get want to get out of bed to go to work, so I've made a deal with him and give him an incentive every morning, at least until he gets used to the idea that he has to go to work. I also told him if his step-father tells me he's doing a good work I might give him another incentive also.