The guy wrote that his parents lived all their lives in a small farm where they spend all their time taking care of it. When his father died (he was 19) his mother asked him to come back and live at the farm to help her take care of it, otherwise she had to sell it. This was 8 years ago. He says their relation went a surprising new way after his mother caught him masturbating in the bathroom, she told him she didn't mind to help him every time he needs.