My father had an affair with my mother 20 years ago when he was working in Thailand. After 1 year he left to Europe and never come back. He only knew he had a daughter when my mother died and I found some photos and letters from him in my mother's things. I tried to find him and did, when I called him he was glad and immediately invited me to go visit him. He bought me a airplane ticket. After that I'm visiting him very often and I'm trying to convince him to let me live with him. I'm trying with everything I know, maybe next time he will ask me.