Sometimes my son disappears for months, I don´t know were he is, he only calls to say he´s ok. But when he finally shows up it´s because he wants something from me or his father, normally is money but his father already said he won´t lend him money no more so he needs me to convince his father, but I don´t do it for free, he has to work hard for I to convince my husband to lend him more money.