I didn't know my father that well when I lived with my mother. He only visited me once or twice a year my mother didn't like him around. At that time I didn't understand why she didn't like I spent time alone with him now I start to understand. He teaches philosophy at the university, he's a free mind and amoral, he believes that if it makes you happy, respects other people rights and doesn't hurt physically or emotionally you or others then do it. My mother was the opposite.